So, you're ready to enrich your sexual experience by taking
the plunge and trying out the proverbial back door better known as the
anus. There are a number of wonderfully designed anal sex toys to help
you in your exploration.
There are some preparations you should make before purchasing your first
sex toy. An anus is used for pushing things out, rather than letting
things in, so you have to teach it how to relax and not do what nature
intended. It needs to get used to the sensation of penetration. Here are
two simple steps that will help immensely.
1. Masturbate
Masturbation will get your body good and aroused. If you are turned on
and relaxed, experimenting with your anus will cause less painful
sensations.
2. Finger Insertion
Make sure you've washed your hands, trimmed your nails and have anal
lube. When you push your finger into your anus, stop as soon as you feel
your anus tighten. You are training your sphincter muscles to relax.
When they do, press a little deeper and stop again when they contract.
Once your finger is inserted, move it around in little circles while
trying to keep your muscles relaxed. This will take a little time and
effort, but once you are able to keep your finger inserted and your
muscles relaxed, you are ready to step up to an anal sex toy.
Suggested Starter Toys
Now that your muscles can relax during penetration, youre ready to try
something better than a finger. Here are a few suggestions for anal sex
toys that are suitable for a beginner.
Anal Beads
Anal beads look like a string of pearls with a handle on the end. The
beads come in a variety of sizes, materials and colors. The beads are
inserted into the anus, then drawn out at a variety of speeds to give
stimulation and pleasurable sensations. They can be used alone or with a
partner for a bit of added spice.
Anal Dildos/Vibrators
This phallus-shaped toy is smaller in length and girth than traditional
dildos, and can come with beaded tips for more pleasure. These sex toys
are also available with vibration for added yumminess.
Butt Plugs
The butt plug is perfect for those who want a feeling of fullness during
masturbation or sex. Available in a number of sizes from small to
monstrous, the plug is inserted in the anus and stays there during other
pleasurable activities, enhancing them. Butt plugs can be pear-shaped,
ribbed or even inflatable. All should have a flared base.
These are three of the basic anal sex toys suitable for beginners.
Sensual, simple to use and just plain fun, they can bring a level of
sexual pleasure to your sex life never before experienced. Whether you
play with the toys alone or with a partner, pleasure is always good. The
only other bit of advice Id like to share is when doing anything
involving the anus, remember to lube, lube, lube!
Choosing the Perfect Sex Toy
Youve decided that you want to amp up your sex life and so
discreetly go online to do a bit of shopping. You do a search for sex
toys and hundreds of sites come up. If youre like most people, you go to
the first one and are just overwhelmed by the sheer number and scope of
naughty gadgets available. How in the world will you choose the best
sex toy out of all these selections. The perfect sex toy just has to be
in there someplace. But where? And how do you find it?
Well, first decide the reason you want a sex toy. Listed below are several of the most common reasons:
? You want to try a different kind of stimulation
? You want to bring a bit of oomph to your fantasies
? Improve your ability to have an orgasm
? You want enhance sex with your partner
? You want to explore new things either by yourself or with your partner
? A sex toy sounds fun
? A sex toy can vibrate, twist and do other delicious things
? Sexual pleasure in every form is your right.
Most people find many or even all the reasons above apply. But what
really matters is what hot, dirty little things you actually want to do
with this sex toy. Stimulate your clit? Then a vibrator is in order. Get a little anal action going? Try out a butt plug. Maybe you want the feeling of being filled to the hilt and a nice ten-inch dildo would do.
If you're a man, do you want something to insert your penis in that is
tight and textured? How about a massager? Do you want to find out what
all the hubbub concerning stimulating that little pleasure bump called
the Prostate Gland is about? Are the orgasms really more intense when
its played with? Try a slim vibrator with a curved tip and flared base.
Or even anal beads for a new, exciting sensation.
Be honest with yourself. What turns you on the most? What are you most
sexually curious about that a sex toy can help you discover? Once you
can identify what will break your bricks, you can go about streamlining
the large number of selections down to a few sex toys that are closer to
what you need.
Once you've identified the type of sex toy that best suits your needs,
you have to consider the quality. This is something that you don't want
to skimp on. Now, a big price tag doesn't necessarily mean quality. Just
because you're going to be doing a number of juicy acts with the sex toy
doesn't mean you don't have to watch your Ps & Qs. Read reviews about
the toy you're interested in. Other users wont hesitate to say if it
breaks or has other problems. A number of rave reviews usually speaks
volumes about how good a sex toy is.
If you follow the above prescription for selecting the perfect sex toy
for your needs, you'll find that your hours of exploration and pleasure
will be just what the doctor ordered.
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